Wednesday, July 20, 2022

Baby Girl

He Himself gives everyone life and breath and everything else.  From one man He made all the nations, that we should inhabit the whole earth; and He marked out their appointed time in history and the boundaries of their lands.                Acts 17:25-26

 On April 4, 2022, I called Justine to wish her a Happy Birthday!  I was feeling a little down in the dumps and told her that I needed a change.  She paused and said, "Would being a grandma be change enough for you?"  Needless to say, I cried and said, "oh yes!"  

Even before you were born, God planned in advance our destiny and the good works we would do to fulfill it.                          Ephesians 2:10

At that time Justine was just 12 weeks pregnant.  Our baby will be 2 inches long.   She will be forming her eyes and kidneys.  She can yawn and suck and pee.

Justine came home for a quick visit on May 26th.  While she was here Juli, Teen, and I went to Ligonier to shop.  We had ice cream and sampled chocolates.  Our family came over for a mini Baby Shower.  On Saturday we went to Greensburg and got our nails done.  We had wings at Sharkeys and played 500.  Teen had to leave on Sunday, but we went to Burgatory for burgers and shakes on our way to the airport.  It was a great visit.  
Unfortunately, Justine, Juli, and I tested positive for COVID on Monday.  We had to stay home.  None of us had serious symptoms though.  Thank You, Jesus.


Now our baby is 22 weeks old!  She should be about 10 inches long and weigh 11 ounces.  She is waking and sleeping and Jutine says she is kicking like a boxer.

You saw me before I was born.  Every day of my life was recorded in Your book.  Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.            Romans 8:28

Look at that beautiful face.
Mama and baby are doing fine.  Justine has been craving gummie candy.
The little girl is now 2 lbs.  Justine is now craving popsicles and has to pee often since our girl thinks Mommie's bladder is a trampoline.
She has hair, eyelashes and even buds for her teeth.  She can hear and reacts to light.

All the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be.     Psalm 139:16





Sunday, April 17, 2022

 

Easter Prayer for the Cavanaugh Clan

Father God, we want to thank you for sending Your son Jesus to live among us.  To teach us how to love and care for each other.  Today we especially want to thank You for sacrificing Your son to give us the hope of eternal life. 

We thank You for this family around these tables,

We thank You for our health in mind and body,

We thank You for Your love and mercy to each of us,

And we thank You for the relationships we have with each other:

            Between moms and dads

            Between brothers and sisters

Between husbands and wives

Between parents and children

Between grandparents and grandkids

Between nieces and nephews

Between cousins, aunts, and uncles.

Yes, we are all connected.  We are placed in this family, at this time in history to learn to love, to glorify Your name, and to make a difference in this world.

Bless each of us with health, strength, and courage to live out our purpose.  The purpose that You created for us before each of us was born.  Keep us close to each other here on this earth and let us live together forever with You in Heaven.

In the name of Jesus, Our savior.  Amen.

Wednesday, April 13, 2022

Chattanooga

I was missing Jessica and Keith.  Julianne had a long weekend.  So we decided to fly to Chattanooga for a quick visit.  We had breakfast ant Bar Symon to begin our adventure.  The flight to Washington DC was a little bumpy, ok it was alot bumpy.  Our flight to Chattanooga was delayed, and delayed and finally cancelled.  What do we do now??? I went to customer service and stood in line with all the other people who had their flights cancelled as well.  One lady in front of me suggested Huntsville Alabama.  I text Jessica to see if they could pick us up there.  They said that would work for them.  Juli and I boarded the plane, Jess and Keith got in their car, and we arrived in Huntsville at the same time.  Thank You Jesus!

It was a nice drive up to Chattanooga.  We all were hungry so we went to their favorite place Chattanooga Brewing Company.  We had pretzels with beer cheese, wraps and beer.  Keith gave us a tour of their neighborhood.  We settled into their townhouse for the evening, catching up on family news and drinking more beer and whiskey. 


 Next day was Saturday and we went to see the Chattanooga Choo Choo.  We did some souviner shopping and had lunch at the Terminal Brewery (delicious post roast nachos.)  Aross the street was Chattanooga Whiskey, so of course we had to go in and taste.  We checked out Feed Tavern.  Rustic and wonderful food.  Then it was off to the Incline.  We got on and up we went.  It is the steepest, longest incline in the US.  From the top we could see 6 states.  We returned to Jess's home and watched Disney movies. 



Our last day took us to Puckett's for brunch then a walk across the Walnut Street Bridge.  This bridge is the longest pedestrian bridge in the US.  We did some more shopping, then the girls rode the Carousel.  It was a nice visit to make sure they are settling in peacefully.  I think Bill and I plan to visit this summer then head south to the Florida Panhandle beaches.

 

 




Wednesday, March 23, 2022

Which came first, the chicken of the egg?

 


Which came first, the chicken or the egg?  Which comes first in life, opportunity or faith?

Faith is being sure of what we do not yet see.  (Hebrews 11:1)  Will you see the opportunity if you don't have faith?  Will you miss an opportunity if you don't have faith?  Could you walk past this opportunity each day and not realize it is for you?  The answer is, Yes!  Let me explain... 

I started teaching "aerobics" after participating in classes for many years.  After a few years, this business,( Energy in Motion) closed but soon another opportunity was placed before me.  (Stretch Your Faith.)  Then I was asked to teach Senior classes at another Fitness Center (Westmoreland Athletic Club)as well. 


What does this all have to do with faith, you ask?  I had many opportunities through those years, but I didn't know it was God's hand directing me behind the scenes as they say. (Proverbs 16:1) I just knew that I loved my job and was good at it.  Now after years of teaching I started to get burned out.  I thought I was going to own a cheesecake business.  Yep, I was going to supply cheesecakes to restaurants and have a small shop where people would come and eat slices of cheesecake and drink tea.  I gave up my position as Active Older Adult Advisor at the YMCA and began to make myself known.


  My friend Sheri took over at the YMCA.  But Sheri was not happy at the YMCA and I was not doing very well in the cheesecake business.  On top of that, my hands developed eczema.  After seeing a holistic doctor, it was determined that this was caused by a gluten intolerance.  Let me tell you, it's difficult to make cheesecakes without using gluten.  Sheri decided to go back to school for Medical Coding, whatever that is, so I took my position back at the YMCA.  I was refreshed and renewed, knowing that I was where I was supposed to be.  

If I hadn't taken "aerobics classes" or hadn't accepted the job to teach, if I hadn't become a Stretch Your Faith instructor, or taught Senior classes, where would I be now.  As I look back on the twists and turns of my life, I see God's hands all over it.  If I hadn't developed eczema or gone back to the YMCA, I wouldn't have been able to minister to many Active Older Adults daily as I read devotionals at the end of class or offer prayers at our luncheons, meetings, and the close of my Christian Yoga class.  Not to mention the daily opportunities to share my love and belief in my God through numerous conversations. 

I truly believe this was God's plan for me before I was knit together in my mother's womb.  Did I have this faith while all this was unfolding in my life?  No way.  It wasn't until I looked back that I could see it.  And now that I have this faith, I can look forward to letting God continue to direct my steps.  

So, which came first, faith or opportunity?  I don't think it matters as long as we trust that our God wants the best for us.  If you're not sure, take a quick glance back and see where He has led you through the hard times and has sent blessings just when you need them.  Don't doubt, have faith! 

Friday, March 11, 2022

Keep your friends close and your family closer

 

Keep Your Friends Close and Your Family Closer

Hi friends, it’s Joyce from the YMCA!

That’s right, I consider you all my friends.  If you take the time to read what I write, we must be friends.  I have friends from many places as I’m sure you do as well.  I have my friends at the YMCA.  I see them most days.  I know about their families, and they know about mine.  There are also my friends at church, school, or in my neighborhood.  We exchange greetings, information, and prayers.  Of course, there are my Facebook and Instagram friends.  Sometimes I know too much about them.  But it is nice to see their pictures and posts.  I have friends from childhood, High School, former jobs, also friends through my husband. Friends come and go but they each leave behind a memory, some good and some bad.

The definition of friend is: a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection. 

Here are some ways to tell your friends that they matter: 

Great friends are few and far between. thanks for being there for me!

Through thick and thin, we've always been friends.

Here's to many more years of being best buddies!

So blessed to have you in my life!

When I count my blessings, you're always at the top of the list. So glad we're friends.

Notice anything missing from those statements.  That’s right, where is the LOVE!

I realize that not everyone was raised in a family filled with love.  But I was and I’m thankful for the bond I have with my parents, sisters, and brother.  We have a group text where we send our joys and concerns to each other almost daily.  In Ephesians 2:10 Paul tells us that, “Even before we were born, God planned in advance our destiny and the good works we would do to fulfill it."  Yes, He put you in your family at this time in history and has plans for you.

The definition of family is: a term that describes the members of a household who are linked by marriage or bloodline.

Now I’m not here to preach to you, but I do know a thing or two about family.  My sisters and I have the same eyes and laugh but that’s about all.  We do things differently and have different likes and dislikes.  Linda likes mushrooms!  If you know me, you know I don’t eat fungus.  I have raised three daughters and they are all different in looks and personalities.  But they are family. We accept each other in spite of our differences.  Why?  Because we love each other.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if all people, in all cities and schools, in every state and country, and throughout the whole world, would treat each other like family.  Look past the differences, to what we have in common, and work together to bring peace to our world.

Saturday, February 12, 2022

What do you think about Joyce Ann Cavanaugh Prutz?

Joyce, the name means joyful, and yes that is what she is.  Sometimes to the point of annoyance.  How can a person be smiling all the time?  What is her secret?  She looks at life through rose-colored glasses.  The bottle is always half full.  She is very naive about how people really are.  She is too trusting.  Someday, she will be sorry that she helped that person or volunteered to do that service.

But I'm glad she is my friend.  I can count on her to be there for me, with me, and beside me through thick and thin.  She will grab hold of my hands and offer a heart-felt prayer anywhere, anytime.  And her back massages melt the tension away and give me renewed hope and strength.

Yep, that Joyce Prutz is well named and a person you will want to get to know.  

She makes awesome Broccoli Cheese Soup too!


Saturday, February 5, 2022

Juliette the Groovy Hedgehog

 

Juliette the Groovy Hedgehog



Story 1
I know a character that is by far the most adventurous creature in the northern hemisphere.  Her name is Juliette Rose Marie.  She is a courageous hedgehog.  You ask, what makes her so brave?  Well for one thing, she lives in the city of Chatanooga TN.  That's right, a hedgehog living in a big city!   Juliette has made her home in a well-established neighborhood in one of the most up and coming cities in the state of Tennessee.  
In the morning she sits on the ledge of her window overlooking the longest pedestrian bridge in the United States and watches the men and women walking across the Walnut Street Bridge.  They are usually unaware of her observations.  She notices that most are in a world of their own, not paying any attention to the world around them.  They don't notice the water of the Tennessee River flowing underneath their feet.  They miss the sweet songs of the birds in Riverfront Park.  
One particular sunny morning, a very observant Juliette noticed a young girl slowly and clumsily making her way through the crowd.  She seemed upset maybe even confused as she bumped into the lady with the yellow suitcase and the man in the Tennessee Titan's sweatshirt.  Juliette decided to jump down and get a closer look.  Now a hedgehog scurrying down a fire escape is unusual for the busy folks of Chattanooga, so Juliette received a bit of attention as she made her way to the bench in front of Clumpies Ice Cream where the girl was now sitting and crying.  
The compassionate hedgehog is gifted with the ability to communicate with whomever she chooses.  Today she sits down close to the girl, but not too close, a hedgehog's spines are sharp and can hurt if they are touched.  Juliette is intuitive to the girl's pain and confusion.  Is the girl lost, or hurt, or even in danger?  How can Juliette find out?  Now I told you that Juliete is adventurous, so she decided to try to make the girl laugh by doing her favorite trick.  She looked into the girl's sad face and puckered up her little pink lips and blew her a kiss.  It worked.  The girl stopped crying and started laughing.  People stopped what they were doing and watched the witty little hedgehog blow kisses to them.  
Suddenly from across the bridge came a shout, "Caroline, where are you?"  The little girl jumped up and started running toward the voice.  Juliette turned and watched the little girl being picked up and hugged by a man in a gray suit.  Together they walked back across the blue bridge and out of her sight.  If Juliette had not be quick to respond to the turmoil she felt in the girl, this story might not have a happy ending, but because she is not only resourceful but practical as well the girl was returned to her family. 
Juliette looked around and noticed that the people were once again walking across the bridge with their own concerns weighing heavy on their minds. It's nearly lunch time she thought, I wonder if the Purple Daisy Picnic Cafe is open yet.  They serve a delicious bar b que sandwich.  

Story 2
The Read House Hotel is a 17-minute walk from the Market Street Bridge, for human, but for a tiny hedgehog is takes all morning.  It was a gloomy day, so Juliette decided it was time to explore the 3rd floor.  Rumor has it that Room 311 is haunted.  The story says that in 1927 poor Annalisa Netherly was beheaded in the bathtub by her jealous lover. 
Juliette scampered up the service stairway to check things out.  Staying close to the wall she quickly made her way down the hall to the door at Room 311.  But how to get in?  Suddenly the door open and an elderly cleaning service employee came out.  She was carrying a tray and large paper bag.  Juliette slipped in unnoticed.  The first thing she saw was the beautiful decor.  The sitting room had a blue Victorian couch and chaise.  It looked fit for a queen.  But Juliete was not here to look at furniture, she was sniffing for the scent of danger and intrigue.  
She entered the bedroom which had more delicate pieces from the 1920's.  Her goal was the bathroom, of course.  That is where the murder happened after all. 
There was the bathtub!  She wondered if it was the same one where Annalisa blood was poured into.  Probably not.  Looking around she noticed that the floor was wet.  Why would the newly cleaned room have a wet floor?  Eyewitness accounts suggest that the lights flicker and the sound of running water can be heard.  
Suddenly she hears a voice from the bedroom.  She peeps out and sees the same employee leading a young man into the room.  Juliette listens as the woman tells the man to stay as quiet as possible if he wants to get off the streets for the night.  She hands him a big paper bag that has a clean change of clothes in it and sets down a tray with food on the nearby table.  After a quick hug she disappears out the door.  
Mystery solved.  The kind-hearted cleaning lady had been allowing homeless men and women to stay the night in Room 311 for years.  As Juliette tried to quietly leave the room the young man noticed her.  He kneeled down and offered her a bit of the sandwich from the tray.  Maybe she should stay for a while and keep him company.  He might get lonely in this big suite.  Maybe the generous lady would come back with more food.
https://www.thereadhousehotel.com/history/

Story 3



It was a sweltering hot day in Chattanooga, Tennessee.  Juliette felt the need to get out of town for a breath of fresh air.  She started heading south and ended up at the Chattanooga National Cemetery.  It was a beautiful area overlooking the mountains and the city.
Juliette found a comfy spot under a bush next to the Andrew's Raiders Monument.  She was reading the inscription when she was interrupted by a gray squirrel.  The irate squirrel said, "That's a lie!''  "What is a lie," asked Juliette?  "The sign doesn't say that James Andrew received the Medal of Honor but I'm sure he did.  He was in charge of the raid that tore down the telegraph lines and wrecked the railroad tracks in the Civil War.  On April 12, 1862, he and his men boarded “The General,” a wood-burning locomotive, at Marietta, Georgia, while the passengers and conductor enjoyed breakfast.  The raiders took off in the engine, heading north, cutting telegraph lines and tearing up the rail tracks along their way.  The train’s conductor and others gave chase, commandeering two other trains as they encountered broken tracks.  When the raiders reached Ringgold, Georgia, 80 miles northwest of Marietta, they jumped from the train, scattering in the forest."
"Wow, you sure know alot about history," said Juliette.  "But I heard that James Andrew was a spy and that made him ineligible for a Medal of Honor.  He was captured and hanged in Atlanta.  I hear he was buried over in Section H."
The little gray squirrel looked at Juliete like she had 2 heads.  It began chattering, turning in circles, and swishing it's tail.  Juliette began to be concerned that the poor little thing was going to have a heart attack.  Then all of the sudden the squirrel stopped, took a deep breath, looked at Juliette, and said, "Ok then, what do you know about the German POWs over in Section R?"
For the rest of the day, the little gray squirrel and Juliette explored the cemetery, learning, listening and enjoying their time together.  
It was starting to get dark, so Juliette said goodbye to her new friend, Sydney.  She hopped aboard a sightseeing bus and was dropped off right in front of her home on Market Street.  It's nice to have a dependable bus system to count on in Chattanooga.


Sunday, January 30, 2022

Highs and Lows - January 2022

Thanks to this writing challenge I was able to document this month...
Shawl is finished

Cold Temperatures

More snow

Big win at the Rivers Casino

62 hats for the American Heart Association

43 care kits for the homeless

Snow

Goodby Christmas

 

January 29th

 Goals for the Next 30 Days:

Losing 5 lbs.

Walking Hazel every day

Drinking less alcohol

Getting our Will papers organized so when Bill get home, we can go see a lawyer.

Praying more:

    Mom - Health

    Bill - Health

    Stacey - Decisions

    Karen - Peace

    Linda - Hand

    Juli - Decisions

    Jessica - Decisions

    Justine - Baby?

January 28th -

 5 things that make me laugh out loud:

 Bill's Dad Jokes

Julianne's odd sense of humor

Derry Girls

Marvelous Mrs. Mazel

Videos of babies and puppies

Monday, January 24, 2022

A Lesson I Learned the Hard Way


I took a bad fall 2 months ago.  I could blame it on the Long Island Iced Tea, or the uneven floors in the restaurant, or even my bad knees.  But the true culprit is being 63 years old and wearing stiletto shoes.  Oh my, they are beautiful shoes!  Black suede, 4-inch stiletto heels, with a small platform.  

Totally embarrassed, I got to my feet, the pain in my knees was excruciating.  I hobbled out to the car, sat down, and held back my tears.  We walked gingerly into the concert.  I was relieved to sit down again.  After two hours of sitting my knees stiffened up and again the pain was beyond anything I ever felt. This time the pain radiated down to my feet and ankles.  Of course, I was still wearing the beautiful black high heels.   

I have to admit whiskey did alot to numb the pain that night.

Did I get rid of those shoes?  Nope, they are still in my closet, waiting.  Did I learn a lesson?  I sure did, but I can't promise that I will never do it again.  Let me tell you about my sparkly silver shoes...

Sunday, January 23, 2022

#23 Write a Letter to someone...

 I'm writing this letter to whom it may concern...

I probably shouldn't be writing this now because I am in a bad mood.  More like a state of displeasure.  Maybe the doldrums or a fit of pique.  It is cold and snowing outside and I am feeling irritable.  

Will I have to cancel my classes again tomorrow?  If I do, I won't be the only one suffering a depression.  My class won't be able to exercise which will release the endorphins that create a good mood and feelings of well-being.  We won't be able to meet with our friends and socialize which produces happiness, bliss, and exhilaration!

My mood is also glum because I haven't seen my daughter Jessica since October when she moved out of state.  It might be petty, but I need to be with my girls or I become vexed with my circumstances.  I begin to pout, nag, and generally become a *itch.  You just ask my husband...he'll tell you!

So what can I do to get out of this ill temper?  I'm doing it right now.  Yes, writing is helping to blow away this blue mood.  I'm feeling relief and a sense of lightness as I confess my annoyances.  I'm reaching a state of contentment and dare I say, euphoria.  If you could see my face, you would see a slight smile, a little upward curve at the corners of my mouth.  

I hope you can find something that lightens your mood and brings you joy on a gloomy day too.


Three Lessons I want my Girls to Learn:

 

The first lesson my girls need to learn is that family is the most important.

The second lesson is that God is with them through the mountains and the valleys. (this probably should be the first lesson.)


And the third lesson is that marriage is hard sometimes.  You need to learn to give and give and give.  Your time, your attention, your love until it's all used up and then give some more!


Wednesday, January 19, 2022

My First Love

 Bill Prutz, my first my last, my forever love.


I first noticed him at lunchtime in the Senior High Ag Room hallway.  I was a Sophmore and he was a Senior.  I'm sure he didn't notice me.  I would see him occasionally in the halls, but I really started to stalk him (as Juli would say) during baseball season.  My sister Linda would ride our bikes 1/2 mile. down the road to Kendi Park where the baseball team practiced. We had minimal interested in baseball, but we did have an avid interest in boys.  Still at this time I wasn't sure if he noticed me. 

Later that Fall, my girlfriends and I were eating french fries and drinking milkshakes at our local Drug Store lunch counter when we struck up a conversation with one of Bill's friends, Jet Jacquilard.  I happened to mention that I thought Bill Prutz was cute and would like to get to know him.  

On December 6, 1974, I got a phone call from Mr. Bill Prutz...WOW!  He told me that his friend said that I would like to meet him.  We talked for a while and he said he would like to take me out but he had to work next week.  Could he call me back and we could decide where and when we could go out on a date?

So, my first love, also my first date, has become my last love and probably my last date. And I would have it no other way!

Tuesday, January 18, 2022

30 Facts about me:


1.  My name is Joyce

2. I'm married to Bill

3. I gave life to 3 daughters.

4. I love my job, most of the time.

5. My parents are still alive, Thank You Jesus!

6. I have 2 sisters and 1 brother

7. I have 2 dogs right now, Hazel and Molly

8. My hair is white

9. My eyes are brown

10. I love chocolate

11. Village pizza is my favorite

12. My 2 son-in-laws are pretty awesome

13. I like to listen to Christian Contemporary Music

14. I love to take baths

15. I love the beach

16. I love to visit my daughter in Colorado

17. I can't wait to visit my daughter in Tennessee

18. I love to read

19. I love to crochet

20. I am a Christian, I should have said that earlier.

21. I enjoy learning

22. I enjoy writing

23. Someday I want to get in my car and drive anywhere. No plans...

24. I love to bake

25. A cup of Buttermint tea with honey makes me happy

26.  So does a glass of Fireball on ice

27.  I enjoy riding bikes with my husband

28. I enjoy doing many things with my husband

29.  Staying healthy is important to me

30. Red is my favorite color


Sunday, January 16, 2022

Day 16 Something I miss...

 


I miss my girls.  They were such a big part of my life for so many years, Now they are gone.  When they were little we would go shopping, visit grandmas, go to church.  In school, the were busy with Girl Scouts, swimming, dancing.  As they got to High School I would take them to swim practice, band practice, football games.  Then they learned to drive and they didn't need me so much anymore.  But along came Julianne.  Yeah!  Back to shopping, visiting, and practices.
Today Jess is living in Chattanooga, Justine is in Denver and Julianne is in Latrobe.  It's just me and Bill.  At least we have place to visit.

Friday, January 14, 2022

Why Yoga? (Mature Living)

 

Why Yoga?

Hi, it’s Joyce from the YMCA of Laurel Highlands. 

Last year in the June / July issue of Mature Living magazine I explained to you why yoga is important to me and should be for you too.  I still believe this to be true, that is why I’m going to give you more information. 

I just completed another online yoga workshop.  This time there were 6 participants, and our instructor was from Minnesota where the temperature was -14.  But I digress!  Anyway, it was a Senior Yoga training, so it was perfect for me since I teach Seniors (Active Older Adults.)  To be honest, I really didn’t learn any new poses but what I did learn I want to share with you. 

Yes, yoga is a great way to exercise.  Even more important are the benefits our bodies can expect especially as we get older.  These include:

Reduce our need for medications, especially blood pressure medicine.

Improve our bone density and strength, reducing the risk of osteoporosis.

Yoga enhances our concentration and determination which will build up our willpower to live a healthier lifestyle.  (Eating better food).

Of course, it helps reduce anxiety and stress. 

We can increase joint mobility and build muscle strength, which will improve our balance.

Yoga will improve lung function, so it’s perfect for people with asthma, COPD and other breathing problems.  Keep in mind, you must start slowly.

And finally, is better brain function.  That’s right, the combination of breathing, movement, and meditation will improve cognition skills like memory and coordination.

I know, right?  Why aren’t we doing this every day?  Imagine if we started next week, how much better we would feel next year.

I teach 3 yoga classes each week at the YMCA.  On Tuesdays at 10:45 I’ll be in the Dance Studio with my Seated Yoga class.  This class is perfect for anyone.  We start in our chairs with breathing exercises then I remind my class that they can remain seated or stand beside their chair as we do strength and balance poses.  We return to our chairs for deeper stretches and meditation.  On Thursdays at 10:45 I have developed a Christian Yoga class.  We use Christian Contemporary music and end our time together with prayer.  This class is more advanced as we hold our poses longer and get up and down from the floor.  Now on Saturday at 8:15, my class has nicknamed this “Crazy Yoga.”  It is more vigorous, and we might even do a flip dog or two.

I challenge you to visit the YMCA and try one of these classes.  If you’re not a member your first class is always free.  I can promise that you will feel better walking out than you did walking in.

Thursday, January 13, 2022

Days 11, 12, and 13

 11.  Something I always think, "What if?" about?

I live my life with no regrets.  I married my High School sweetheart, I have 3 healthy daughters, I have a great job, money in the bank, 2 wonderful son in laws, I really have no What ifs? 

Okay, what if I won $1,000,000?  In today's world that won't go too far.  I watch the show Lottery Dream Home sometimes.  I see these people looking at homes that cost a million bucks.  If you spend the whole lot on a house, how are you going to pay taxes, utilities, furnishings and appliances?  

Yes, I would love a house on the beach or a cabin in the mountains.  I would love to give my kids money to pay off their college loans and mortgages too.  So maybe I should ask, "What if I won $10,000,000?"

12.  Write about 5 blessing in my life.





1.  Jessica Lynn, my first born, my big girl.  She grew up way too fast and moved away as soon as she could, but she found her way home, married a wonderful man and then moved away again.  She is smart and talented.  I hope one day she will realize just how special she is.

2. Justine Nicole, the middle child.  Actually, she was the baby for 13 years.  She was easy going, smart, funny, and a joy to have around.  Until I found out I was pregnant.  Then she became a beast. she has reverted to her old ways and is once again a beautiful, fun loving woman.

3.  Julianne Marie, the miracle baby, the answer to many prayers, the piece that makes our family complete.   She is an old soul with a heart of gold. She will do great things.

4.  Anthony Michael Kern, my first experience with a teenage boy.  To say he loves my daughter Justine is an understatement!  They have been together since they were 16.  They have traveled the world and seen things I can only dream about.  But unfortunately, all is not perfect.  they seem to be unable to have a baby.  Only God knows why? when? and if?  

5.  Keith Richard Henry, my second experience with adding a male to our family.  He is a great provider for Jessica and loves her and puts up with her many moods.  He was a great golfing buddy to Bill until they moved to Tennessee.  I hope we can stay close and have fun times together as we travel back and forth to visit.

13.  What are you excited about?

I'm excited about tomorrow.  Bill has been in Calvert Cliffs, Maryland since January 3rd.  Tomorrow he will be home for 2 weeks. This is not unusual.  Every January for the last 30+ years he has had to leave home and go to a nuclear power plant to service it.  He works in tools and motors and I guess they need to be updated every two years.  He is nearing retirement and hopefully soon won't have to go.  I look forward to being together, eating pizza, and having a whiskey with him.



Monday, January 10, 2022

Something I feel strongly about:

Pro Life, is something I am passionate about.  It started as a cause at St. Joseph's Catholic Church.  Once a year we would gather on Everson Bridge, hold signs and hopefully make people understand that each life is precious.  Then as my girls got older, I wanted them to realize that each baby is a gift.  I would take them on a bus trip to March for Life in Washington D.C. so they could hear the speakers and see that many people believed the same way. I also invited my Girl Scout Troop to see what all the controversy was about  I still believe that each child is a gift, and that life begins at conception.  I got a wakeup call when we found out that Justine was pregnant in December of 2020 and our baby died in her womb in February 2021.  I get sad thinking about all the babies thrown into the garbage because women don't realize how blessed they are to be able to carry their babies and deliver a precious girl or boy to love and cherish.