Mini Vaca to Maryland

 

Bill and I escaped the craziness of the Corona Virus and had a little getaway to Maryland.  We stopped at Tall Pines Distillery in Salisbury, PA for a tour and tasting.  The owner was super nice, I think we could have stayed all day and tasted everything but we had an adventure waiting for us at the Rocky Gap Resort and Casino.

We checked in then walked around the resort.  We decided to grab a burger and fries along with a cold beer at the outdoor restaurant, Signatures.  The Black n Blue Burger was awesome!

We checked into our room which had a jacuzzi tub, got dressed up and went to the casino.  The next day we rented a paddleboat and spent an hour on the lake at Rocky Gap State Park.  It was a good workout.  We ate at a Mexican restaurant.  They had giant margaritas...

Back to the casino to lose some more money, then bedtime.  We wanted to get an early start for the beach tomorrow.

I forgot how wonderful the beach is!  It has been 3-4 years since I had my toes in the sand.  We parked at the Holiday Inn on 17th St and headed outside.  People were being safe and social distancing.  We unpacked our tent and towels and sat down to take in the view..

The water was wonderful.  The waves were brisk.  I got wiped out a couple times, but it was great!  After a few hours we went back to the hotel to check in to our room.  It was on the 12th floor so we had an excellent view of the Boardwalk.

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We went to DaVinci's for dinner.  I had Eggplant Parmesan and Bill had some kind of pasta.  We walked back to our hotel and sat at our balcony sipping Long Island Iced Teas and watching people.  The next day was Friday.  It started out cloudy but we had high hopes that it would clear up.  We played in the waves and saw more clouds building up inland.  People started packing up their tents and towels  and leaving.  I was determined to wait it out.  "It will blow over," I said.   HA!  We crawled into our tent and watched the rain pound on the sand.  I didn't mind, it was kinda romantic.  It slowed down so we made a run for it.  

That evening we walked to Hooters for dinner.  Yes, I know it's all about the girls, but let me tell you, their General Tso's Chicken Wings were awesome.  We spent some more time porch sipping and enjoying our last night at the beach.  

We got up early enough to enjoy a sunrise then off we went. 

 We were home around 1:00 then went to the kennel to pick up the dogs.  Vacation over. 

 I hope our memories will last and keep us as relaxed and peaceful as we were at Ocean City, Maryland during the Corona Virus Pandemic.  

The Times, They are a Changin

The Times They Are a-Changin’

The Times They Are a-Changin’ is one of Dylan's most famous songs.  Many feel that it captures the spirit of social and political upheaval that characterized the 1960s.

Dylan recalled writing the song as a deliberate attempt to create an anthem of change for the moment. In 1985, he told a writer: ""This was definitely a song with a purpose. I wanted to write a big song, with short concise verses that piled up on each other in a hypnotic way. The civil rights movement and the folk music movement were pretty close for a while and allied together at that time."  A self-conscious protest song, it is often viewed as a reflection of the generation gap and of the political divide marking American culture in the 1960s.  Dylan said, "I can't really say that adults don't understand young people any more than you can say big fishes don't understand little fishes.

The Times They Are A-Changin'

Bob Dylan

Come gather 'round, people
Wherever you roam
And admit that the waters
Around you have grown
And accept it that soon
You'll be drenched to the bone
If your time to you is worth savin'
And you better start swimmin'
Or you'll sink like a stone
For the times they are a-changin'

Come writers and critics
Who prophesize with your pen
And keep your eyes wide
The chance won't come again
And don't speak too soon
For the wheel's still in spin
And there's no tellin' who
That it's namin'
For the loser now
Will be later to win
For the times they are a-changin'

Come senators, congressmen
Please heed the call
Don't stand in the doorway
Don't block up the hall
For he that gets hurt
Will be he who has stalled
The battle outside ragin'
Will soon shake your windows
And rattle your walls
For the times they are a-changin'

Come mothers and fathers
Throughout the land
And don't criticize
What you can't understand
Your sons and your daughters
Are beyond your command
Your old road is rapidly agin'
Please get out of the new one
If you can't lend your hand
For the times they are a-changin'

The line it is drawn
The curse it is cast
The slow one now
Will later be fast
As the present now
Will later be past
The order is rapidly fadin'
And the first one now
Will later be last
For the times they are a-changin'

Now let’s take a look at what is going on right now in 2020.  The Corona Virus has infected the world.  Businesses are shut down.  People have lost their jobs.  Toilet paper is in short supply and anxiety is running rampant through our country.  Our new heroes are doctors, nurses, and emergency medical personal.  The villains are the media, politicians, and the Police Departments.  No hockey, basketball, or baseball.  No new movies, television shows, or concerts.  We are confined to our homes, only allowed out to go to work or the grocery store.  We have to wear masks, use hand sanitizer and not touch our faces. 

Now some people are ok with this.  They get a chance to stay home, slow down, and bake bread.  Others, not so much.  Parents have become teachers, people who commute to work now need to figure out how to work from home, and let’s not get started on no haircuts, manicures, and lunches with friends.

Oh yes, the times they are a changing! 

But this isn’t new, this shouldn’t be a surprise.  From the beginning of time, things have changed.  Maybe we just got too used to the same ole same ole. 

We were warned in the Old Testament:

Psalm 78:1-3

My people, hear my teaching;
    listen to the words of my mouth.
² I will open my mouth with a parable;
    I will utter hidden things, things from of old—
³ things we have heard and known,
    things our ancestors have told us.

Imagine being born before 1900.  No electricity, telephone, automobiles.  No shopping malls, grocery stores, or online shopping.  There was World War 1, World War 2, the Korean and Vietnam Wars.  Also the Spanish Flu, Prohibition, the Great Depression and the Polio Epidemic.  Don’t forget about all the advances in health care, including vaccines, transplants, and screenings for diseases that would have meant certain death in years past.

We have gone from hi tech cameras and video equipment to our hand-held phone to memorialize our special days.  Record players advanced to 8 Tracks, to cassettes, and CDs to online streaming and Bluetooth. Our cars can practically drive themselves and our homes have many modern conveniences that our grandparents could never have imagined in their wildest dreams. 

Yes, the times are a changing and we need to change with them.  Imagine if Jonas Salk would have hidden his vaccine for polio or if Henry Ford just threw away his drawing of his automobile.

I know it is scary and overwhelming, but if we take moment of time in our lives one day at a time we will get through it.  Jesus even told his friends:

Do Not Worry

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?  Matthew 6:25 

So what can we do?

Trust.

Trust and know that there is a bigger picture than all we see right now.  We are the pieces of the puzzle that is life.  God has a plan and it’s a good one.  So trust that he will get us through this valley and whatever lies ahead of us. 

Romans 8:18

Tea Cup Meditation

Tea Cup Meditation

Hi, it’s Joyce from the YMCA of Laurel Highlands. 

Now that I am back to teaching classes I have discovered a renewed passion for my Yoga classes.  I teach 3 classes each week at different levels.  On Tuesdays I meet in the Dance Studio with some lovely ladies and lead a seated Yoga class called YogaStretch.   On Thursdays I teach Christian Yoga, which incorporates Contemporary Christian Music along with basic Yoga poses and a blessing to end our class.  Saturdays we meet outside by the pavilion for Sunshine Yoga.  Unfortunately it rained this week so we met in the Fitness Loft for our class.  Now what does all this have to do with a Tea Cup Meditation?  I’m getting to that.

This Thursday as I was sitting at my kitchen island, I poured myself a second cup of tea, green tea with honey.  I watched the steam rise from the cup and I thought how peaceful it was to watch and thought about putting that feeling into words to share with my class.  So here is my “Tea Cup Meditation” that I used to relax my class and sent them on their way home with a Black Cherry tea bag.

Prepare your teacup.  Pull out the special one in the back of your cupboard.  Put the tea bag, sugar, honey and or cream into the cup ready for the boiling water.  Pour in the water, watch the steam rise from your cup.  Feel the steam on your face as you inhale the fragrance of the tea.  Hold the cup in both hands and enjoy the warmth.  Now find a quiet place to sit and slow down.  Relax as you take your first sip.  Feel the tea on your tongue, notice the warmth as it goes down your throat into your belly.  Now pause, breathe, be at peace, take this time to know that you are loved and cared for by the Creator of the Universe.  You are special.  You are important.  You are blessed so you can be a blessing.  Take another sip and simply say, “Thank You.”

I’ll bet you didn’t know that tea is also good for your health.  Studies have found that tea helps reduce your risk for cancer, heart disease, and diabetes.  It can also encourage weight loss, lower cholesterol, and keep you alert.  Check out the article on www.webmd.com, “Types of Teas and Their Health Benefits” for more interesting facts about tea.  According to Diane L. McKay, PhD from Tuft’s University, “It’s not just about the foods; it’s about what you drink as well, that can contribute to your health.”

Now don’t just take my word for it.  Try it yourself. Have a cup of tea.  I mean it!  And try a Yoga class while you’re at it.

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Yoga, It does a body good!

Hi, it's Joyce from the YMCA of Laurel Highlands.
It was a cold and rainy weekend, you know normal for late April here in Western Pennsylvania.  I had nothing special planned so I signed up for a Yoga Certification program online.  I would be spending 16 hours in two days with people from across the country learning about Yoga.
I have already been certified to teach Yoga through SilverSneakers and YogaFit, but I needed to get recertified in order to move forward in my practice and become a better teacher.
There were 17 women and one instructor signed into a Zoom meeting at 9:00 on Saturday morning.  Some of these women were instructors like myself and some had taken yoga classes and had hopes of becoming an instructor.  Now there were a few who had no idea what yoga was but wanted to learn something new.  (I say, good for them.)

Just in case there are a few of you that don't know what Yoga is, let me give you a quick rundown.  Yoga is an ancient practice that originated 5,000 years ago in what is now known as India.  

It was brought to the USA in 1893 during the Chicago World’s Fair.  Physical yoga became popular in the 1930s using poses and breathing to create a flow style that is used today.  History lesson over.

In 2010 researchers from The University of Maryland determine that yoga equals or surpasses standard exercise in improving balance, decreasing anxiety, improving mood and sleep, decreasing pain, lowering cholesterol and improving quality of life.  It will also aid in prevention of osteoporosis by making bones grow stronger.

Now some people will say that Yoga is Non-Christian.  Originally, yes, it was! The word “yoga” means to yoke or join together.  It connects your breath with your action.  Some yoga teaches Chakras, which are energy centers within your body.  Others teach Yamas, Niyamas, Asanas, and or Pranayamas.  People can spend many years and thousands of dollars to get enlightened. 

The kind of yoga I teach at the YMCA is Fitness Yoga.  I call it Christian Yoga so people will know before they come into class that I will not be focusing on any philosophy that is against their relationship with God.  I use the poses to strengthen, invigorate, improve balance, flexibility, and relieve stress.  I also teach YogaStretch, which is a Yoga Class that is taught in, beside, and behind a chair.  There is no floorwork in this class.  Participants wear their shoes but still get the benefits of a yoga class.

Most peoples’ favorite part of a Yoga Class is Savanasa, meditation and relaxation.  I like to end my class with a time of breathing exercises, self - massage and visualization to quiet their bodies and their minds.  Did you know that we average 60,000 thoughts per day?  Sometimes it’s nice to just turn off our minds and focus on our breath.  If this sounds nice to you, join me at the YMCA or any other facility that offers Yoga taught by a trained instructor.  It could change your life or at least help you to relax for 60 minutes.

Corona Virus 2020

The world changed as we know it on March 16,2020.  Businesses closes their doors and a dark cloud of fear spread over the United States.  The villain was called the Corona Virus!
Somehow this nasty virus had slipped through the cracks of security and was now intent on destroying our country.  We were told that it will kill our older, weaker, sickly population.  We were ordered to stay home to protect ourselves and our loved ones.  We were only allowed out if it was absolutely necessary.  Many hurried to grocery stores to stock up on milk, bread, and toilet paper.  Oh yes, toilet paper!  It was to become as precious as gold.
Schools closed!  Preschools, Elementary, Middle School,  High Schools and Colleges.  Teachers and Parents had to learn how to teach online.  School lunch programs had to figure out how to feed kids that depended on them for their breakfast and lunch.  Students were isolated from their classmates and friends.
 

Families found themselves together more often than ever before.  For some, this was wonderful but for others it was a living nightmare.  Struggling marriages were falling apart at the seams, tearful children were getting on each others last nerve, and to top that paychecks stopped coming.  Let's not even start talking about unemployment and stimulus checks.

In the beginning we thought that all would be back to normal in a couple of weeks.  Well 2 weeks turned into 8 weeks and we are just now starting to breathe the fresh air of freedom.  Freedom to get out and meet with our friends and family (with 6 feet of Social Distance between us and masks on!)

We have 3 phases here in Pennsylvania: The Red Phase is where we were.  The Yellow Phase is where we are and the Green Phase is where we want to be.

I think we will all be changed by this.  We will all have a "New Normal."  For some it will mean appreciating their home, job and family more.  Some may feel the need to get out and explore, not put things off because who knows what tomorrow will bring.  Some may hoard and save things just in case this happens again.  I hope that we will be kinder and gentler to each other when we all come together again.  I'm looking forward to long hugs and longer conversations.  

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Presidential Love Stories

Presidential Love Stories

I’ve been asked to open our Saturday Afternoon Ladies Club meeting with a story.  Since it is the month of February, I assumed I should talk about “Love.”  No, our Committee Hostess wanted me to talk about our Presidents since Presidents Day was to be celebrated on the following Monday.  Well I am a romantic at heart so we agreed that I would talk about Presidential Love Stories.  Off to my computer I went to Google,” Presidential Love Stories.”  I found a very interesting article in The Catholic Match Institute and more facts in Wikipedia.

Did you know that only 1 President was a bachelor?  James Buchanan, was known for being the worst President ever.  Maybe he should have found a wife. 

Anyway, back to our love stories.

George and Martha Washington were not madly in love.  She was actually a widow with 4 children and he was infatuated by his friend’s wife.  Not a good start.  But they respected each other for their fine intellects and unimpeachable characters.  They formed an affectionate partnership which supported them through the Revolutionary War and the beginning years of our nation.  It is verified that Martha Washington was at valley Forge and traveled thousands of miles to be with her husband.

John and Abigail Adams marriage was a great love match.  They were distantly related and had known each other since they were 3 years old.  She was a brilliant beautiful woman who served her husband as his closest advisor throughout his career.  John’s duties often kept him away from home, sometimes for years at a time but the two kept up a continuous correspondence that demonstrated their passionate love for each other.  She was the first First Lady to reside in the White House and is said to have hung the laundry in the East Room to dry.

Andrew and Rachel Jackson adored each other.  Rachel had been married to an abusive man when Andrew first met her.  He actually told her first husband, “Had I such a wife, I would not willingly bring a tear to her lovely eye.”  She left that man and married Jackson.  Rachel was a devoutly religious woman who had great influence on her husband.  They had no children of their own but adopted many young ones over the years. She died on the eve of his inauguration and was never able to enjoy her role as First Lady.

Ulysses and Julia Grant shared a love of horses and books.  She was the sister of his West Point roommate.  She was cross-eyed and wanted to have surgery to fix her eyes.  Ulysses said, ”No, I like them just the way they are.”  Their life was unsettled and full of many failed business ventures.  Their eight years in the White House was their longest residency in one home.

William and Ida McKinley’s marriage was a tragedy from beginning to end despite their devotion to each other.  Their 2 daughters died before the age of 5 which caused Ida to fall into a deep depression and become an invalid.  When she felt strong, she enjoyed crocheting slippers and giving them as gifts. William was assassinated and his dying wish was that his secretary be gentle as he broke the news to his wife.  

The love story of Theodore and Edith Roosevelt seemed to come right out of a novel.  Their story began as next door neighbors and childhood friends.   After college and the death of his father, Theodore married a beautiful but unintellectual woman.  The marriage lasted only a few years as his wife died in childbirth.  Theodore and Edith were reunited at his sister’s home and the two renewed their relationship. Edith redecorated the White House and even invited Booker T. Washington to dinner, how scandalous!  They had many happy and loving years together.

Calvin and Grace Coolidge proved the opposites do attract.  He was quiet and reserved and she was a social butterfly.  Their marriage was marred by the death of a son and the stress of the Presidency.  Nevertheless it remained strong until his tragic untimely death.

Harry and Bess Truman met in Grade School.  Bess was a rough and tumble tomboy and Harry was a shy bespectacled boy.  They were one of the happiest and most normal couples to inhabit the White House.  After Truman left office, they bought a car and drove across the United States staying in hotels and eating in diners.  Harry and Bess were the first Senior Citizen to receive their Medicare cards from President Johnson himself.

Green Bananas

It’s that time again….New Year, New You!  New chances, Fresh starts.  New Beginnings, New Challenges.  New Dreams, New Adventures.  Get Healthy, Lose weight.  Smile More, Worry Less.  Stop Smoking, Save Money.  Stress Less, Exercise More.  Be Positive, Laugh more.


It’s all over the News, Social Media, and the magazines in the check out lines.  Try this diet.  Try this new product guaranteed to take away your pain, problems, wrinkles, husband, (just kidding.)  These are all great ideas but let me add my thoughts to them.


 As a Fitness Instructor of course I’m going to encourage to take care of yourself physically by exercising for 30 minutes, 3 to 5 days per week.  That’s doable, right?  Next you need to take care of your brain.  Yes, read, learn, do hobbies, but also take the time to relax, meditate, breathe.  Get a massage, practice Yoga or Tai Chi.  Take a walk, look at the stars, or watch the sunrise, preferably over the ocean.  And last, but not least, take care of your soul.  In these Golden Years, we don’t buy green bananas, just in case were not around when they get ripe. HaHa!  In all seriousness, you never know.  So I encourage you to “Let Go and Let God.”  He’s got this all figured out.  Matthew 6:27 asks us, “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life.  Go to church, forgive an enemy, or your son in law, reconnect with friends.  Don’t just exist, Live!  


You are never to old to set another goal or dream a new dream. 

Denver over Thanksgiving 2019

It was a beautiful day in Pittsburgh but we knew that Denver was having a snowstorm.  We were waiting to see if our flight was delayed then decided, "What the heck, let's just go to the airport!"  (Oh yes, I almost forgot, Julianne got a speeding ticket on her way back from Edinboro.)  So we get to the airport and start walking around.  We see Michael Symon's restaurant, Bar Symon and go in.  Since it was a late flight we ate salads and sandwiches.
The flight was uneventful.  Bill and I watched a movie on his Kindle and Julianne did whatever Julianne does.  We get to Denver a little late and then the fun begins!  It took forever to get our luggage because of delayed flights earlier in the day.  I takes a long time to get our rental car too.  Oh, and did I mention the temperature is in the single digits and there is a foot of snow on the ground!
We were planning to visit Justine before checking into our hotel but by the time we were on our way, she was asleep on her couch.  Did you know that they don't salt the road in Denver?  I'm glad Bill was driving and not me.  Our GPS took us through the suburbs and shopping areas.  We did find a liquor store open, thank goodness!  We finally made it to our Staybridge Suites hotel, unpacked, had a beer, and went to bed.

Yep, there was a foot of snow!  After breakfast we drove over to Teen new house.  We met Oliver and took the grand tour.  It is a nice house with room to grow.  Anthony had to go to work that night so we left him to take a nap and we went to the Stanley Market.  We had a flight at Cheluna Brewing Company and walked around for a while.  We decided to go to Station 26 Brewery for some tangerine beer and popcorn. 

We got back to Teen's picked up Anthony and went to the Escape Room.  We had so much fun when we were there earlier in the year we wanted to try again.  We escaped again.  Ain't no stopping this Prutz / Kern combination!  We had a nice Italian dinner at the Cherry Tomato that evening.
Happy Thanksgiving!  We found Alice's Restaurant on the internet and listened to it at Teen's while enjoying delicious smells of turkey and apple pie.  We nibbles snacks and drank lots of beer until at last the turkey was ready.  It was well worth the wait!

With full bellies we watched Christmas Movies and then played 500.  What a great Thanksgiving!

Next day, we drove to Fort Collins for a tour of New Belgium Brewery.  We also stopped in at ODell Brewing Company and stopped at Black Shirt Brewery as well.  We splurged on mouth watering burgers at Park Burger that night.

Saturday, last day here.  We packed, went to breakfast, then went over to Teen's for last minute snuggles with Oliver.

Went up the street for a light lunch at Ester's.  Said our sad goodbyes and drove to the airport.

As I look back at there pictures and remember all that we have done with our kids, I pray that they will cherish these memories as much as I do.  Thank You, God for giving us the finances to be able to travel and spend time with Justine and Anthony.  I pray that the next time we see them they will have news of a baby.  Amen.

Julianne and Joyce's Spring Break in Denver

So as I'm looking through my Blog I notice I didn't write anything about my last 2 visits to Colorado.  Julianne and I went out to visit in March on her Spring Break from Edinboro.  Bill was out of town, so we put the pups in the kennel and made our escape.  We didn't have a lot of time so we wanted to make the most of our trip.
We got to the airport early, seems to be a habit, and enjoyed dinner at Bar Symon.  Juli had pierogis and I had Poutine again.  Yum!

We flew Frontier with just our carryons.  Justine picked us up at the airport and we went to their tiny house.  Anthony had snacks for us, of course.  

The next day was Thursday, Anthony was working so it was a Girl's Day.  First we went to the Denver Biscuit Co.  Oh my, the delicious biscuits!

We drove to the Stanley Market.  It had lots of cool shops.  Then we saw an exhibit called  Natura Obsura at the Museum of Outdoor Arts in Englewood.  It was definitely obsure.  I wasn't too sure about going to an Escape Room but we did and it was so much fun!  And Yes, we escaped!  Afterwards we joined Amy and Charlie at Super Mega Bien.  I tasted food I never did before and it was muy bien!

Now it is Friday.  Anthony is off so we drive to Boulder.  Juli wants to go back to the Tea House.  We enjoyed our lunch with hummis, chicken and lots of tea.  We drove back to Denver and stopped at Anthony's favorite bar, Black Shirt Brewery.  Even though our bellys were full we went to SMOK.  If you can't guess by the name, it was a delicious Bar B Que place.

I thank God for the opportunity to visit and all the experiences we had in Denver.  Hopefully we will be back at Thanksgiving or Christmas.

My word for 2020 is Hope

Hebrews 6:19...We have this HOPE as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.

What do I hope for in 2020? 

 

1.  A baby for Justine and Anthony

2.  Love for Bill and I

3.  Happiness and Peace for Jessica

4.  Julianne to find a good friend and faith in her future

5.  Good Health for Mom and Dad

Those are the biggest dreams on my heart.  

I know God is working on them.

Hazel, Hazel, Hazel...

Hazel, Hazel, Hazel...Come inside and get a treat!  Come in and get warm!  I think someone is coming, you better come in!  HAZEL, get your butt in here!

Hazel loves to be outside and she only comes in when she is ready.  Luckily, we have the Invisible Fence and know that she is safe.  

Yes, I know she is cute, but she needs to learn to listen.  Especially to Julianne while Bill and I are at work.  I'm going to look into Obedience Classes for her this Spring.

This is my first post this year.  I am hoping to write more often.  See you soon...

Hazel's First Snow

She is there.  Right in the middle.  She didn't know what to think of it at first then she discovered that she loved it.  Not surprising, I have trouble getting her to come in. 
She has grown so much in the last few months.  Bill was gone for 7 weeks and was amazed at how big she was when he got home. 
Hazel is a cuddlebug in the evening.  We enjoy watching Hallmark movies and snuggling on the couch.
Life with Hazel is busy but I wouldn't change her for the world.

Hazel at 6 months

Bill has been gone for over a week and Hazel seems to be doing fine.  Thank You, Jesus.  I was very concerned that she would become disobedient when he went off to work in South Carolina.  Yes, she seems sad and mopey sometimes.  She has started laying in his chair in the evening.  But she is in good spirits.  We play tug and fetch outside in the morning and take our walks in the cemetery most evenings.  Can I just say next to the garage door opener, the invisible fence was the best investment ever! 

Hazel update

Hazel is now  4 1/2 months old.  She weighs 21lbs.  She can reach  tables, chairs, and anything else she wants.  

She has reconciled with Molly.  Molly has been a good teacher They go for walks together most evenings. Bill and I enjoy taking them out. 

Holly has introduced her Golden, Dani to Hazel. 

 It's nice to see them play

 together

Let's talk about Love

Hi, it’s Joyce from the YMCA!

Today, let’s talk about LOVE.  Something we all want and need, but most of us don’t really understand.

In my 20 years at the YMCA I have seen many relationships start here. I’ve seen young adults workout with their friends then meet up for a drink afterwards.  I know of many people who go out for coffee after a class. The YMCA is where they connect, renew friendships, or even find love.

I see married couples come in the front doors together then go their separate ways, one to the Fitness Center and the other to one of our many Group Exercise classes. Sometimes they workout together, walking side by side on the treadmills, but more often doing their own thing,  meeting up in the lobby again when they are finished.

We have many single members as well as widows and widowers that attend classes, play Pickleball, or enjoy time in the Fitness Center. 

Which leads me to the main subject of this story:

Love the second time around.

But the second time around isn't the same as the first time. You're older, and what you want in life has changed. Many of the goals of a first marriage such as buying a house, working a new job, and having children, are no longer goals in a second marriage. Instead, you're looking for someone to settle into retirement with, to share travel destinations with you, and to be your bridge or Pickleball partner.

Some people may think that they are “too old for that silly stuff” but today’s Active Older Adults have much to offer.  They are stable, financially secure, wise to the ways of the world, and know what they want. Society can also put a huge downer on senior romance but I think people deserve to feel happy and loved at any age. Whenever I see an older couple walking hand-in-hand down the street, I smile and think, “good for them!”

Homecareassistance.com says, You can’t compare this love story to your first time.  You are not the same person you were then.  You have don’t have to plan for the future because the future is now.  You can just enjoy each day as it comes.  As a retired couple you will be spending lots of time together so you will want to make sure you have similar interests.  But you are bound to have differences so you must respect them.  Give each other room to pursue your different hobbies.  Be ready to downsize.  You can’t keep all your stuff and his stuff and start a future together.  It’s time to let go.  There will be an adjustment period.  Be patient while you sort it all out.  This is a new beginning.

So if you are looking for love, come to the YMCA and meet some of my Amazing Older Adults.  Actually, we are having a Senior Prom on September 28^th at the YMCA of Laurel Highlands.  It is a fundraiser to recognize and support the Twilight Wish Foundation of Westmoreland County.  There will be food, fun, and dancing.  What better way to make new friends and who knows, maybe find love!

More Hazel

So I promised to post Hazel Pictures so we can all watch her grow up:

The good news is that Molly seems to be tolerating her, the bad news is that Molly doesn't like her much. 

She loves taking walks with Bill in the cemetery.  They also play fetch and floppy dog in the morning.  I love that Bill enjoys training her while he is off this summer.  I worry about what will happen when he goes out of town.

We entered Hazel in a Pet Competition at the YMCA.  She got to meet lots of other dogs.  I was very proud of how she behaved.  She didn't win, but I think she picked up some pointers from the older dogs on how to act in public. 
That's all for now, stay tuned...